Archive for September, 2007

Celebrity Bridal Jewelry: How to Look Like a Celebrity Bride

Thursday, September 27th, 2007

Do you want to look as elegant as your favorite celebrity on your wedding day? Whether you adore Gwenyth, Beyonce, Halle, Angelina, Sandra Oh, Cameron Diaz, Kate Hudson or any other megawatt actress, you can easily emulate her superstar style without much effort. It’s easy, because contrary to what you might think, looking like a star does not require you to hire expensive stylists, amass a titanic budget or have ‘friends’ who lend like Harry Winston and Fred Leighton. All you need to know is what jewelry style works with your dress, how your personal style fits in, and where to find the ultimate bridal jewelry. Then, simply work your confident attitude like your favorite celebrity to carry off her superstar look. You’ll be a stunning bride on your big day for sure!

To get started: Think about your favorite celebrity and her signature look. What about it appeals to you? Her effortless elegance? Her flair for drama? Her always-fresh take on an old classic? Steal the best of her looks and make them fit your own. Then, consider whether her style works with your bridal gown, your personal style, and how you envision your big day. For example, if you love Drew Barrymore for her earthy bohemian chic and you’re having an outdoor beach wedding, you’re good to go. Look through recent photos of her and see what jewelry she wears with her boho outfits, and how that might translate to wedding day jewelry. (To get Drew’s signature style, don’t forget to tuck a flower behind your ear.) On the other hand, if you love Jennifer Lopez’s sophisticated style but you’re having a laid-back afternoon affair, save the sophisticated look for another time, say, your bridal shower or rehearsal dinner.

Now that you’re thinking about which popular wedding jewelry style fits with your ceremony, select the category below that most closely matches the look you’re after. Read on for specific tips on choosing the perfect bridal jewelry that will have you looking and feeling as if Nicole Ritchie loaned you her stylist for the day.

* Classic: Simple, clean crisp lines, loads of delicate lace, white pumps or strappy sandals, and a traditional veil or pillbox hat define the wedding style we all call classic. Think Grace Kelly in her real-life wedding to Prince Rainier or Mena Suvari in the movie “Rumor Has It” and you’ll get the picture. Accessorize the classic look with simple, elegant accessories. A classic diamond or pearl pendant, possibly in a heart shape, paired with delicate pearl and diamond earrings or simple pearl studs are all you need. On a budget? Adorn Brides (find them online) is a great place to lease gorgeous classic wedding jewelry. (You can lease a $10,000 necklace for $330). Looking for pearl bridal jewelry styles? Conduct an Internet search on ‘pearl jewelry’ or ‘freshwater pearl jewelry’ to find affordable pearl styles you can wear long after the wedding. Not sure what bridal jewelry combination will work best? A delicate pendant paired with classic pearl studs and bare wrists is a look that never goes out of style.

* Innocent: To picture the innocent bride look, think Gwyneth Paltrow in “Emma.” If you’re going after a softly feminine look, defined best by the empire-waist bridal gown, accessorize simply. Think gold and pearl pieces. Illusion pearl necklaces, illusion pearl bracelets, simple gold bangles or a gold pendant with seed pearls also complement this look perfectly. Or, wear pearls in your hair (perhaps a curly updo a la Gwenyth?) and carry a gold clutch. White ballet flats capture the sweetly innocent bride look perfectly.

* Glamorous: Think Jennifer Lopez in “Monster-in-Law” or Heidi Klum in real-life (her 10-carat stunning engagement ring from Seal epitomizes glamour girl style). Glamorous celebs and glamorous brides wear the classic glamour bride look: a gown with a corseted bodice paired with opera gloves. Glamour brides typically forego a necklace as it competes with an intricate bodice. If you do opt for a necklace, try to find something vintage or vintage-inspired, like a pearl pendant set in filigreed metal. Be minimal and classic.

* Sixties-inspired: Think Angelina Jolie in “Mr. & Mrs. Smith.” Accessorize a short, Jackie-O-style gown and simple veil with pearl and diamond or CZ studs, and a simple, classic 18-inch white pearl strand. Choose freshwater pearl jewelry if you’re on a budget: Pearl experts say that thanks to improvements in culturing techniques, today’s freshwater cultured pearls are every bit as luminous as their saltwater cousins.

* Pink: The hem of style icon Gwen Stefani’s unforgettable wedding gown was tinted a gorgeous pink hue. Reese Witherspoon donned her character’s signature pink shade to wed hunky Luke Wilson in the hit movie “Legally Blonde Two.” Apparently, pink is all the rage among the fashionable. Going pink like Gwen and Elle Woods? Whether you’re wearing blush or deep fuchsia, accessorize your pink bridal gown with the perfect pink accessory: pink pearls. Find gorgeous, affordable pink pearl jewelry at Moon River Pearls (you’ll find them online). But keep this non-traditional look simple: A pink pearl pendant or pink pearl strand paired with pink pearl earrings looks wonderful; too much and you’ll look like cotton candy. A multi-strand pink pearl cuff can be stunning on its own.

* Modern: Carolyn Bessette Kennedy: In her real life wedding to John Kennedy Junior, Carolyn was the epitome of modern chic in her stunning white column sheath. A classic bouquet and a simple updo kept the look fresh. Like this style yourself? Complement clean, modern lines with simple, elegant pearl jewelry. A classic 16-inch pearl drop pendant, pearl drop earrings or pearl studs, or a multi-strand white pearl bracelet all fit the bill. (Jennie Garth wore a stunning multi-strand white pearl cuff bracelet in her real-life wedding to actor Peter Facinelli.) Another huge wedding jewelry trend that is popular today: the 1920s look. Layer long and short strands of pearls or chains, or wear darkened Victorian metal, which has a romantic, old-world feel, over your modern bridal gown.

More bridal jewelry ideas: * Bold jewelry is modern and popular. Stick to one or two standout pieces. * Today, brides are wearing wedding gowns with colored sashes beneath the bust or at the waistline. For a black-sashed wedding gown, choose a black Tahitian pearl necklace, black pearl choker or black pearl bracelet. Matching black pearl earrings complete the look. * Black freshwater pearls are an affordable alternative to Tahitian black pearls. * Having a beach wedding? Wear shell jewelry, coral jewelry, mother-of-pearl jewelry or freshwater cultured pearl jewelry. * Lavender pearl jewelry looks especially fresh and luminous right now, and works with most skin tones. * Check out pink pearl jewelry for your flowergirls. (Find them online by searching “children’s pearl jewelry.”) * If you choose a tiara, keep other jewelry simple. Tiaras are big and bold all by themselves. * For a new take on an old classic, wrap a strand of pearls around your wrist. * Drop earrings perfectly frame a brides’ face in a close-up photo.

One final tip: The Internet is a great place to comparison shop for jewelry, and is usually far less expensive than retail stores. Just make sure you’re buying from a reputable site with a secure store. Finally, be sure to check return policies before you buy; you don’t want to get stuck with bridal jewelry you hate on your wedding day! Bonus: Some Internet jewelry stores offer free shipping and a free gift with purchase, which can double as a maid-of-honor gift.

Shop Around for Wedding Anniversary Gifts

Thursday, September 27th, 2007

There’s a list of traditional wedding anniversary gifts that should be given each year. Although many couples find these traditional items a little dull, there’s still a lot of “old fashioned” couples that follow this list on an annual basis. Whether you’re a modern couple or an “old fashioned” couple, you have to admit that some traditional wedding anniversary gifts are a little odd. If you’re confused by our term of ‘traditional wedding gifts,’ we’re referring to a traditional gift list that many couples follow on an annual basis.

For instance, according to this traditional list, a newly wed couple’s first year anniversary gift should be…are you ready? Paper. Well, that’s simple enough. We’ll take money! If only men read into things like us women do. Instead, traditional men usually opt for cards, magazine subscriptions, personalized journals, engraved albums, and memo pads. Sounds a little boring, doesn’t it? If you’re snoring at the idea of those gifts than you’re definitely more of a contemporary person. Nevertheless, you can always give or receive a gift certificate as a traditional first anniversary gift. It’s paper, and you can purchase anything you want with it. Now that doesn’t sound so bad, does it?

Despite many couples’ admiration of these traditional gifts, we advise modern couples not to get caught in the traditional gift trap. While that may sound harsh, we realize that the times are changing. If paper didn’t sound like an odd enough gift to you, try the second year anniversary gift of…cotton. Yes, cotton. You can almost see the scenario unfold before your eyes. “Just what I wanted, a pillow!” Yikes. Sometimes being non-traditional has its advantages. There are no guidelines to follow. Anything and everything is open for consideration as a gift.

An excellent anniversary gift idea is a photo album. While it may not sound very appealing, consider a solid finished wood album with your family name engraved upon the cover, or “our family memories.” The album doesn’t have to contain photographs. It can be a scrapbook of your finest memories. Ticket stubs from years ago when you and your spouse were “dating,” a token from your wedding, images of your children. You can fill an album with anything. Just remember to be creative.

There’s a number of gifts that can say “I love you” on your anniversary. Roses, cards, chocolates, and jewelry are all gifts that express remembrance of your special day. But liven it up a little! Try wrapping the gift yourself. Add something funny to the card. Show your spouse that it wasn’t a purchase which required little effort. It was something that you thought about in advance. Presentation is a very important aspect in gift giving.

Forget about paper, cotton, and traditional gifts; unless of course, you want to receive a box of Q-Tips for your anniversary. That’s a scary thought, isn’t it? But here’s the point: There’s not supposed to be a set of gift related rules! Anniversaries are meant to be celebrated, not dreaded. Use your imagination and surprise your spouse every year. Buy or make something that you know your spouse will adore. It’ll show that you’ve put some thought into your gift. Remind them why they fell in love with you, and they’ll do it all over again.